Wow, almost a whole month…

Posted in Uncategorized by macktivist on May 19, 2010

…has gone by without me posting here. Well, I’ve technically graduated undergraduate but I still need to work on one more class. My romantic life has been improving, and I haven’t talked to Secundus in almost two weeks, which may or may not bee related to the previous statement.

More early tomorrow, or later today; which ever way you want to look at it.


Dating situations

Posted in Uncategorized by macktivist on April 17, 2010

I went on a Coffee pre-date today. All of my friend know that I believe in having “pre-dates” that usually include getting coffee, as it’s cheap and non-creepy to ask pretty much anyone to go get coffee.

There’s a girl whom I found on OKC because of a funny post that she made in the blog section of her profile. We friended over facebook and even exchanged phone numbers. We’ve been trying to meet up up for over a month, but between her crazy work schedule and my illness over the last week we haven’t been able to meet up.

Well I met up with her today, but I don’t think that she was interested me as anything more then being friends. She’s been in my town for awhile, but she doesn’t seem to have many friends. I didn’t even get to talk to her about poly, but I’m sure that she isn’t interested in me.

Secundus is back-ish in the situation. I don’t know, I think we came to a compromise, although I can’t shake the feeling that I’m being “downgraded” or being put on probation of some kind. Update, nevermind

Oh wow.

Posted in Uncategorized by macktivist on April 7, 2010

So it’s almost been a month since I last posted! I’ve decided that I am going to, starting today,post something everyday.

So what has happened in the last month? Well, Spring Break but it doesn’t count that much if you’re only taking one class. Got in an blow out with my secondary’s ex, which was BOUND to happen as they live together (which happened after they broke up, yeah, I know), and has finally convinced him that their relationship is getting so toxic he has to get out. This has brought up some issues for him to work out.

My primary is going to Berkley Law this week for orientation. He’s going to a lot of different events, some especially interesting queer events, like a tour through the Castro. He’s been questioning his own sexuality for the past few months and finally is feeling comfortable identifying himself as bisexual. I’m so proud of him in so many ways! I even surprised him by advising him to pack some condoms in case he gets lucky, as the “rules” that we set down require us to introduce new partners before sleeping with them. But I decided I’m be okay with relaxing them for one week, especially since whoever he hooks up with he won’t even see again until he moves there in August, five months from now, so I feel okay with it. 🙂